Welcome to the Growth Guide, a weekly newsletter where I share actionable ideas to help you Live Better, Achieve More and Be Financially Free. It Isn't About You And, I know it will for you, too. A past colleague and friend, Justin, sent me a note after last week's newsletter. What struck Justin was a specific section of the Spotlight Effect article when I wrote The person you're worried about judging you is worried about you judging them. What struck him the most was the idea others are...